Maybe because I am a grandmother trying to help and advise and comfort a teenage grand daughter who lives far away and I rarely see, I find that I am thinking a lot about my grandmothers. Jane Conlon and Ida Mowry-- neither of whom I ever met.
Around 1906 when Jane Conlon first came from Ardboe,
County Tyrone, Ireland to Cumberland to live in the Ann& Hope
Mill Village, she worked in the Ann& Hope Mill as did so many of
the new Irish immigrants. One of the experienced workers, from a
local Yankee farming family also worked in the mill, helped her and
instructed her in her new job and her new life. That teacher was Ida
Mowry-- and I sometimes think of the two young women forming a
friendship across the divides of origin, and religion and ethnicity.
I am grateful for that meeting for reasons that they could not know:
for they would share more in the unfolding of time. They would share grand-daughters: me and my sisters, when Jane’s
daughter Margaret married Ida’s son Norman. I did not meet either
of my grandmothers; for Ida Mowry Jenckes died in the terrible flu
epidemic of 1919 and Jane Conlon Coleman died in 1942, but I
celebrate those two women and their friendship.
They show Pawtucket at its best.
Let me leave you with that image of what is possible in
Pawtucket. More than 100 years ago in 1906 an experienced and kind American
worker turned to a younger and frightened Irish immigrant girl –as
they used to say–just off the boat. That woman from the old RI
family that had founded Pawtucket befriended and helped the Irish girl, a girl raised on the
Banks of Lough Neagh in County Tyrone, whose daily routine, until
she left, was lived to the rhythms of fishing and nets and boats and
eels, a girl that was frightened by the screeching mill whistle. That
girl stood now for the first time in a noisy textile mill with rows
of deafening whirling machines, and Ida Mowry reached out to her the
hand of friendship and helped her to understand her new world . And
100 years later their grand daughter celebrates them today.
In these troubled and troubling times, where there loom
so many causes to despair, I draw hope from that history: the hope
that perhaps, this very day in some work place in Pawtucket or the
Blackstone Valley a worker turns with compassion and friendship to a
scared immigrant and guides her to a new and better life. Who
knows--perhaps a century from now in 2106, their grandchild will
bless them for it.
DIVERSITY IS STRENGTH
Pawtucket
has always been the gateway to a new life; this small, important
city on the banks of the Blackstone where people come to find places
to work and play. When we welcome newcomers and make room for their
children and grand children to grow in body, mind and soul, when we
safeguard and improve places of work and play, we are building a
rich, creative life of work and play– a vision of human
possibility much too large to be written on the back of a dollar
bill.
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