Saturday, December 22, 2012

A Gift at the Grist Mill

Unexpected Pleasure at the Grist Mill

Yesterday I went to the Grist Mill in Seekonk to meet  up with my reunion class from Saint Xavier's Academy.  A small group meets every month --weather permitting. This was supposed to be  on the last day of February, but when I appeared there at Noon I was told there was no reservation for the group.

 I sat  alone for a  minute and then asked whether they had been there the day before and the hostess said yes. So -- They said the last day of February-- and I wrote  29 down because of Leap Year  but they met on the 28th.  I stood to depart and then I stopped.

I f you don't know it the Grist Mill is perched on a lovely spot, a  small falls of the Runnins River. It has been there a long time and on this day we were having a little snow. The grey tone of the sky, the water, the arching bridge, the stone walls, the gulls, the geese and the two immense swans were creating a  picture of  unmixed harmonies of  white, grey,  charcoal,  silver, and black that Whistler would have delighted in.

 So I thought  why rush out--this is a gift of a solitary lunch in a   perfect place. I  asked for and was seated by the window bedside the falls. The sound and motion of the water danced  outside the window and inside the aroma of cooking and the wood smoke from the  stone hearth fireplace  made a delicious contrast.

I went home and wrote this the  first day of March and I did  not post it. As my readers may know the Grist Mill has been destroyed by a passing  truck and an explosion. I cannot even look when I drive  by now. How I hope that something beautiful and appropriate will be erected there.




Last year  I went to the Mowry family reunion held in Woonsocket. My family has close ties to Woonsocket..  I have  often gone to Oak Hill cemetery when I was  a child, brought there by my  father's sister, my Aunt Grace. She was extremely faithful in  decorating and caring for the graves of her family.  My father's mother was Ida Mowry and her grave is in a small cemetery in Cumberland on  Dexter Street .  It was my Aunt Grace, who died in  2000 at the age of 90, and her Aunt Almira Barlow  who did the research on all the Union soldiers buried there and convinced the town of Cumberland that they should at least mow the grass and  keep the grave sites accessible to those of us who still want to honor our dead.  
Aunt Grace and Auntie Barlow won a large victory, and I was impressed by her determination and her  insistence on doing the right thing.  She was a person of high standards, and much as I try to imitate her, I always feel that she was always light years ahead of me in so many ways.  
I only wish that I had known about them and gone to Mowry reunions with my Aunt Grace, but I did get to go with another dear and faithful family member, my cousin Louise,  her grandfather was the brother of my grandmother Ida.
One of the great things that I learned at the reunion is that the Mowry family motto is the Latin tag  DUM VIVO, CANO which is translated--"While I live, I sing." 

This  motto moved me because it speaks to my desire to express myself more fully and more creatively before I die. An  Irish   friend once said to me "You must fiddle the tune that is in you."  And  that is  another way of saying that we all have something to say and we have the right even the duty to ourselves to give expression to the unique message that only we with out unique DNA  have brought to the earth.

I find this  insistence that we are all creative to be very comforting and stirring. I have often spent much energy and intelligence and creativity interpreting the  writings of others--that's what it means to  be a person who professes literature. But  I always  felt  a longing to express myself more directly.  I guess that is the  reason for this blog also   Finally, as of 30 November 2012--I am no longer teaching. It took me that long To actually reach the state of being fully retired, I was pressured by  the fact of my own declining health; that is what made me  finally understand  how limited and unpredictable our life on earth is.

I would like to spend some time before I die discerning and expressing as fully and clearly as I  can  the unique  message that the Creator placed in me.
  Just as he placed a message in each of you, dear reader. That is what is new about each of us and what we are here  to discover and share.  Let's get on with the show--while we live we can sing. 

Saturday, January 7, 2012

A 200 dollar night in Pawtucket

We had heard so much about the wonders of the Gamm Theater in downtown Pawtucket. Finally, we  booked two tickets to go to see their revival of an earlier production of Shakespeare's HAMLET.  We went with two old friends and planned a  dinner date before the show.  The restaurant chosen is on Hope Street almost on the Pawtucket line. We went and ordered from a pricey menu. Each of us had a drink to start and two of us had  desert to finish.  The grand total for  us was over one hundred dollars. PLUS TIP!! My husband could not believe  that was the cost, and he kept examining the bill--but there was no mistake.

We hustled out into the cold night and drove the few miles to the Gamm  next to Tolman High School  and the old armory building. After parking, we went in and sat down. We   paid  80 dollars for our  two seats. My husband turned to me and said--I cannot believe that we are spending 200 dollars for a night out in Pawtucket--we might as well  bus down to Manhattan.

Then the show began, and when the final lines were spoken in that great scene of destruction that ends the tragedy--we decided that we had more than gotten our money's wroth.

The Polonius was a revelation.  I am glad that I  saw  that performance. Both my husband and I are specialists  in dramatic literature--my husband has published  five books on Shakespeare. So this was not our first HAMLET.  But I can say with no  hint of   exaggeration that this was the best Polomius I have seen. The  actor who played the  old politico is himself an old man, and his  ways of showing the aging and capturing the  complexities of the old man were a source of delight and wonder.
Thank you Gamm Theater.